Blog Post 69

How can someone put so much time and effort into a relationship during the day but at night they’re on their phones texting their side chick or side nigga? I swear this generation that we live in has no meaning of loyalty and trust. Where did we go wrong to end up unloyal and untrustworthy to people who cared for us? I’m so lost that I honestly believe that people really think that love is a game and we should just treat it like one. Which kind of sucks if you think about it. I personally can’t ever treat love like a game because I’m not about to get into a relationship and be like the rest of y'all and end it with the girl 3-4 days later all because she didn’t play right.

If I ever do get into a relationship I’m going to make sure I treat the girl right and with respect, because half of you people in relationships can’t seem to do or find which is kinda pathetic and you claim that you’ve been in relationships since 4th grade or somewhere around that area.  My dude, you’ve probably been fantasizing about you being in a relationship since the 4th grade. So calm your ass down saying you’re a pro at dating because you’re not. The only thing you’re a pro at is lying to yourself.

People should only be in relationships if they’re serious and really committed to being with that person. If people can’t-do that then it’s not really dating it’s more like a hookup. Because you’re technically seeing the person only a few minutes out of the day and probably going to their house just to relax and leave 20-30 minutes later. Which is okay but most people that I know who are smart with their relationships would consider that crap an elementary relationship. So you be the judge on what kind of relationship you’re having or you’re willing to have because at the end of the day it’s going to be either a game to you or the real deal nothing in between.

I’ve had exams last longer than most peoples relationships and that’s saying a lot right there. Which is kind of impressive but also sad and pathetic at the same time. Because how do you have a relationship last less than an exam? Come on now. You’re cheating on your girlfriend already and it hasn’t even hit noon yet. If you’re going to be in a relationship for that long you might as well not even put the time, energy and effort into asking your crush out because it’s a waste and it’ll make you look really stupid and you’ll probably be the laughing stock of the whole school and that’s going to suck.

So my advice here is: Be smart with your relationships and stop treating them like games. Because how would you like it if someone played you like a game? I know for a fact nobody in their right mind would like being treated like a game and only be temporary just for the other person amusement. That’s almost like being used in a way in my opinion. So you decide.